How to Talk About Hospice With Your Family

Conversations about hospice can be challenging, but also important. When approached with compassion, they open the door to support, peace, and clarity.

Tips to make the conversation easier:

• Choose a quiet, comfortable setting

• Use simple, honest language

• Focus on values and goals—not just medical facts

• Reassure your loved one that hospice is about comfort and dignity

• Be prepared for emotion—and give space for it

Conversation Starters:

• What matters most to you right now—comfort, staying at home, time with family?

• I want to make sure we’re doing everything we can to make you feel supported. Would it be okay if we talked about some options together?

• Have you heard of hospice care before? I’d love to share what I’ve learned—it’s not what I used to think.

Common Questions:

• What treatments do you want to avoid?

• What treatments do you want to pursue?

• If your time was limited, what would be most important to you?

• How can I best support your choices?

Remember, you don’t have to have all the answers. At Hand in Hand Hospice, we’re here to walk beside you—even in the hard conversations.